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The Uplift Two

  • Writer: Austen Hayes
    Austen Hayes
  • 4 days ago
  • 2 min read

Updated: 3 days ago


"The greatest good you can do for another is not just to share your riches but to

reveal to him his own."                                  ~ Benjamin Disraeli

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where life resets - click to enlarge




Expectations...


...what you believe will happen in the future or how others should behave


in the end, it's not circumstances or people, but your perceptions and judgments of what's offered that will influence how satisfied or disappointed you'll be and the amount of each you'll bring into your life.


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See life as it is, not as you think it should be.


Love people as they are, not as you want them to be.


See beauty as it shows itself - flawed or different than you think it ought to be.


Listen not to correct the less than perfect speech or poorly told story, but for the message the teller hopes to convey.


If you expect nothing from someone you believe is 'less', nothing is what you'll get. Not because they have nothing to offer, but because you've silenced your curiosity.


If you never again see the person you judge, will you one day recall what it was you loved

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Satisfaction is a feeling of contentment or fulfillment felt when your needs are met - more easily and fully met when you acknowledge what is


To know the feeling of delight in the presence of beauty, you must make yourself available


Your expectations have the power to transform outcomes. It's up to you


For one week - walk into every environment, enter every call, join every meeting, drive to every destination - willing to notice the good


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Thank you for visiting. Please pass this post on to someone you know, leave comments and suggestions below, and when you have a minute, see the most recent post at the Book Corner, a collection of passages from favourite books you might enjoy.


Until next time...


ah

 
 
 

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Zara Jamei
a day ago
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.

Full of wisdom, thank you Dr Hayes!

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Guest
4 days ago
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.

we must see or some good and special in everyone we meet . stranger or neighbor \, friend . this what i learned from this blog. thank you my beautiful sister love you for all the great words.

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stephanie
4 days ago
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.

Just what I needed for today..... it really helps refresh my soul reading these words and seeing your beautiful pictures. Thank you for the thoughtfulness of these selections and the compilation. Love to you always for the generosity of your soul...

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austen
4 days ago
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I'm more than pleased to know this - my favourite kind of effort - getting out there in this beautiful world finding so many surprises. Especially this time of year! Have a lovely week...warmest, Austen

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Guest
4 days ago
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.

Made my day, as always, Austen...thank you for your wise & kind words.

I wish our whole world looked like your photos, just beautiful.

love & miss you

Vicki

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Austen
4 days ago
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Hello! A lovely note, and always a happy surprise to hear from you! Every note tells me to keep going. Thank you, Vicki! So grateful...

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